This is a guest post by Tea Silvestre.
Sure. You read Remarkablogger and all the best blogs about blogging.
Your content sparkles. Your design is flawless.
You’ve optimized for SEO and ticked off the long list of best practices. You’ve fine-tuned every aspect of your site.
It’s all humming along quite nicely, thank you very much.
But could you be doing more?
It’s a question that all great bloggers ask themselves. That’s how they got great, in fact.
And it’s not a question you can answer with a magic pill or a silver bullet.
It can only be answered with real, honest-to-god work.
In my search for that little bit extra I could be doing, I culled the following suggestions. And then I started actually using them.
Guess what? The response was pretty incredible.
Real business relationships were formed. With real transactions (yep, money!) as a result.
You don’t need to do them all at once. Or even all of them, at all. Just start with a few that feel right for you, and add to them as you build good habits and streamline your processes.
Make Your Blog Readers Feel Special
- Welcome them personally. Create a Start Here page that points out the top 10 most important pages on your site. Include a personal welcome video so they can get better acquainted with who you are.
- Send an email to new commenters thanking for them for their visit. Yes – you may have seen this one before. And maybe you’ve even done it once or twice. But have you ever taken just a few minutes to do a little research on them, first? Everybody’s leaving their website link behind, so there’s no excuse for you to NOT go visit them and see what you can find. Look for interesting tidbits that you have in common. Or find something specific you can comment on or ask about. This shows that you’re not just sending a form letter and will warm their hearts for sure.
- Return the favor. Visit the website of a new commenter and leave a thoughtful comment on their blog.
- Share the love. If you find something cool on their site, tweet out a link to it. Or at least Tweet out a “thank you.”
- Make a social media connection. Follow your commenters and subscribers on Twitter, Facebook or Linkedin (if appropriate). Send a DM saying hello, thanks for commenting/subscribing, and that you look forward to getting to know them better.
- Reach out to those who follow you. When you get a new fan or follower on social media, reach out and send a short hello message and thank you. DON’T use auto DMs. These need to be personal messages. Do a few seconds of research before you send the message to find something specific you can mention in your DM so they know you took the time to send something individual.
- Introduce them to someone in your network. Connect two people via an email introduction when you think they would benefit from knowing each other (after, you get to know them!).
- Make them famous. If you find someone whose blog is rockin’ it, write a review post about their site highlighting the best bits and what you liked.
- Create a showcase post. Write a short bit about how you’d like to get to know your readers better and provide a virtual space for networking. Ask them to post an introduction of themselves and include links out to their recent projects, posts or whatever they’d like to show off.
- Create a Hall of Fame. Choose a reader of the week from the comments of your blog, your Twitter stream and/or Facebook page and show them off. Interview them and then post the highlights on your blog and via social media.
- Invite them to contribute. Ask a commenter to guest post if you like their writing style.
- Share something cool. When you come across helpful articles or tools on other sites that you think would be relevant to them, send them a link via a personal email. We tend to do this a lot via social media — but that’s sharing with lots of people all at once. I’m talking about doing this individually, one at a time.
- Send a virtual thank you gift. When you notice that a commenter (who leaves great comments) has returned a few times, reward them with a small gift certificate for coffee or an iTunes download. It doesn’t have to cost you more than $2-3. But imagine their surprise!
- Say it with video. Record a personal thank you for commenting video and send it to your loyal readers when they’ve made three or more fabulous comments.
- Invite them to a virtual coffee. Again, this if for those commenters and/or subscribers who really stand out. But ask them if they’d like to meet on Skype or Google hangouts for a quick hello and get-to-know-you.
- Show off a commenter or other reader in a sidebar widget. Put a short bio and photo with a link to their site in sidebar widget. Rotate these out weekly or monthly. There are featured post WordPress plugins or your theme may have this function.
- Give them some free Swag. If you have any branded items that you can mail out (for FREE), put them up on your site and offer in exchange for a mailing address.
It’s important that instead of just asking readers to buy stuff from us, we invest a little time to find out more about them: their businesses, hopes, aspirations and yes, their challenges.
Get Started Now
What are you waiting for? Pick three or four of your favorite ideas and then commit to them in public by leaving a comment below.
Next, decide how you’ll implement.
Will you need to learn a new skill first? Do a minor upgrade to your software or hardware? What do you need to know in order to make them happen?
Then schedule some quality time with your readers. It might be 10 minutes each morning, or 45 minutes at the end of the week, but figure out what works for you. Block that on your calendar with an appointment to keep yourself on track.
Communicating on a personal level with your readers will make a big difference in your efforts to build a loyal tribe.
And yes, it takes a little time. But it will also enrich your life (and your business) immeasurably.
And really, isn’t that what it’s all about?
Tea Silvestre, aka The Word Chef, blogs about how to cook up a tasty website for the small biz crowd. Get her free 5-part eCourse on web marketing (plus a ton of other great advice) so you can learn how to share your secret sauce with the online world.




Love tips 13 and 14, Tea. I’ve never thought of a virtual thank-you, but it’s a great idea. I’m pretty new to doing video, but I’m adding this to my to-do list.
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Sharon, you and me both. I have got to get over my fear of this first!!
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Thanks Sharon. Those are REALLY fun. Especially because nobody is expecting them and when they arrive in your inbox, your readers are definitely surprised. (In a good way.)
Tea Silvestre recently posted..It’s All About YOU
exactly never got my attention too
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Awesome piece, Tea. One thing all 17 of those suggestions have in common: they are other-centered. We small biz peeps get (sometimes) so myopically focused on ourselves + our business needs that we forget the best advice we ever got for making friends, way back in kindergarten: Show a genuine interest in/concern for *others* first. ‘Cause don’t we all like most those people who seem to genuinely like US?
Annie Sisk (Pajama Productivity) recently posted..Are Your Actions Advancing Your Dreams?
Totally, Annie. Plus, it’s way more fun (I think) to think about others first. Just finished up an interview with Mari Smith and she talked about the same things: Relationships First. Business Second.
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This is some great advice Tea. I started sending quick thank you notes to my commentators and suggesting links to some other content they may be interested in (and not on just my own sites), and immediately saw an increase in site subscriptions.
Offer them value (and not just a pitch) and loyalty is guaranteed:)
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Ha! I knew there was a reason I liked you, Adam. You’re a true giver! (People: you should totally check out Adam’s site for WordPress help!)
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That’s awesome Andy. I do imagine it would help readers feel that you’re genuine, but getting a big increase in subscribers is impressive. You must have done it right
I really like the “Hall of Fame” idea… kind of like a “I rock” contest. People will love the idea of possibly being interviewed, especially if they truly respect you.
~ David Walker
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Sorry… meant Adam and I hit the wrong reply!
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Great, relationship-based strategies, Tea! I do many of these, esp. doing a little research on new followers and then making a personal response and sending people links and info that might be of specific interest to them. I like #9, of getting readers to interact with one and other and creating a virtual network. I’d like to make a post like this next week.
Can’t wait to read your post, Gloria. You always put a great twist on everything you do.
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BRILLIANT! So succinct and step-by step. Tea, I love it. Thanks!
Thanks Rachelle. Happy you enjoyed it!
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Great tips. Very practical and easy to implement ideas. Thanks Tea!
Glad you liked it, Madhu. Can’t wait to see what you do next.
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Tea I had not thought of your first suggestion, but it makes a ton of sense! I will need to get cracking on that. Also a huge thumbs up for no auto DM’s, I can’t stand them.
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I know, right? Auto DMs are the scourge of Twitter. We do need to automate some things, but when an automated personal message is an oxymoron!
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Tea, aloha. No doubt about it, you are a Master Chef. Thank you so much for these tasty tidbits that I will add to my recipe for success. #9 and #13 particularly resonated with me because of their innovation.
Because of you, my readers will be surprised and delighted with what they see come their way. Thank you so much.
Wishing you a week of awesome sauce! Aloha. Janet
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Thanks for the kind words, Janet. I did #9 last week (it’s still the featured post on my site) and have been getting tons of great response. Am looking forward to showcasing the individuals in a future post, too. Aloha.
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Brilliant. Thanks for making this comprehensive to-do list! I love the many ways you describe to “share the love.” So many good ideas, must start now!!! xoxo
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Thanks Jodi, coming from the Queen of Love-Sharing, that means a lot.

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Loved it Tea! Especially the virtual coffee. I’m planning on implementing that on my Special Moms blog.
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Coolness, Michelle! Let us know how it goes.
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Fabulous suggestions that focus on and celebrate your readers. Awesome. I already email new commenters, return the favor, share the love, connect on social media at times, and celebrate top commenters in my sidebar. What I’d like to add is sending a thank you gift, creating a thank you video, and writing a welcome page. Thanks for the suggestions!
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Glad I could give a few new ideas. Let us know how they play out. I’d love to see what you do with the video.
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As usual, Tea has culled the information down to what is really important. Well done, Word Chef!
Tea, i really enjoyed this blog post. A few of these I already do with my blogs but you pointed out some great features like the swag or do a thank you video. You are awesome lady and I look forward to learning more from you.
Thanks LaTersa! You’ll have to share your video when you get one done.
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Great list Tea – thanks so much. I have a small to do list written of tasks I can do.
These are going to be mine:
Make them famous and ask them to contribute.
Cheers
Ainslie
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Yay! Looks like a lot more famous people after today. Thanks for stopping by, Ainslie.
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Love your suggestions Tea!
All of them are truly remarkable though the virtual ones are surely something I have never tried, though they do sound interesting- surely a great way to interact and remain connected.
Thanks so much for sharing

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G’Day Tea,
These are really good tips. They include a number that I’ve not seen before. It’s very useful information and I like the general tone too.
Thanks too to Michael for providing the space.
Make sure you have fun
Regards
Leon
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Glad you enjoyed the post, Leon.
And yes, a special thanks to Michael for having me on Remarkablogger.

Tea Silvestre recently posted..It’s All About YOU
I have been trying various ways to improve my blog.
Loved few of your blogger tips and will surely use your tips and hope that my blog viewership will improve.
Great Post !
I’ve used number nine on several occasions… rather than just replying to a comment, I’ve created a post dedicated to answering a visitor’s question thoroughly.
By giving a visitor “15 minutes of fame” I encourage other visitors to leave their comments as one good question could see them featured in a similar manner.
David
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That’s another great way to approach it, David. Thanks for sharing.
Tea Silvestre recently posted..Relationships First, Business Second: An Interview with Mari Smith
It s true, i feel special when i read your blog
I think Tea deserves a round of “virtual” applause for her guest post.
Thanks, Tea!
You’re welcome back here any time. No need to ask, just send me something whenever you feel like it.
Michael Martine recently posted..Are Referrals More Important to Your Online Business than Strangers? Then Why are You Blogging for Strangers?
Thanks Michael! Props must be given to Jon Morrow, too. His guest blogging class really helped me polish my stuff.
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I really appreciate this article and am happy to have found you thanks to a tweet today! Excellent ideas on what to do! I look forward to implementing a few of them and I can see how it will add a lot of spice to my blog. I will retweet this as well as it is very valuable! Have a great day!
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Thank you, Rusty. As a “Chef,” I always love it when I can help “spice up” someone’s writing.
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This was just . . . delightful.
Concise and truthful in every way. I’m going to have to get started or I’ll feel like a criminal.
Great post, Tea
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Tea, one of the best lists I’ve seen!
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Tea I had not thought of your first suggestion, but it makes a ton of sense! I will need to get cracking on that. Also a huge thumbs up for no auto DM’s, I can’t stand them.
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Great tips. I’ve been following them for the whole week. Sort of a reader spotlight festival.
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Thanks Jodi! Glad you’ve enjoyed them.
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Excellent stuff, start to finish, Tea! i think an understated line is “And yes, it takes a little time. But it will also enrich your life (and your business) immeasurably.” As a recipient of #7, i can vouch for that one: an actual local relationship and paying gig, all via Twitter! Put that in your strategy and smoke it!
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Hey evan! Thanks for adding some fun “proof” to my post. You’re also a great example of how it works.
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Wow, what a gem! I feel like I just landed on the one-stop-shop for blogging advice… I think I’ll stop searching for more pointers and start doing! Thank you!
Ahhh!! So much Blog knowledge in one day!!I must have woken up from the right side of the bed today!!
Thank you!!
Great tips. I have been blogging for more than a year but have not succeeded in generating revenue. These tips are definitely gonna help me get more from my posts.
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Tips 10 and 13 is really good. In fact I have a feeling I might start implementing your point number 10.

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thanks for this post, very useful to me for how to interact with visitors.
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Thank for this great set of tips, the first few seemed obvious but as I kept reading I realized the originality and difference in your ideas. This is very helpful.
This is a great article. I like how it shows how to be reciprocal, which makes blogging better for everyone.
Tea, i really enjoyed this blog post. A few of these I already do with my blogs but you pointed out some great features like the swag or do a thank you video. You are awesome lady and I look forward to learning more from you.
I Am from the Netherlands and dutch people like everthing that is free given away, when i started list building with a free e-book my list is going through the roof!
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Great article one of the best I’ve read this year. I like theme of interacting and building a relationship with your readers. Too many bloggers simply post an article and then begin typing up the next one. I think it’s very important to reward your readers/subscribers as everyone likes to be made to feel special. Doing this for you readers is a great way of building and encouraging a community.
Very insightful and I think we could all learn a thing or two from this post. Many thanks.
Thank you Tea for a great article, I am new to internet marketing and I will implement a few of these strategies into my blog to build a better relationship with my visitors. I really like the idea of doing a review on their site.
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I like number 2 especially and its not something I am doing and should be. Make them feel special and wanted. If you do the chances they come back are real good and even a greater chance to buy a product or service your offering.
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Thanks for these great tips, nice work! I will be sure to use them soon.
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I’m new to blogging. In fact I just started to work online as virtual assistant and still so much improvements. Your ideas is of great help and is looking forward for more updates in the future. I have subscribed to your mailing list and hopefully will receive updates.
Thank you.
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What a fantastic list Tea. I think things really take a turn for the better when you start thinking about your blog as belonging to your readers and not to you.
Most bloggers think about their blog as being their own. What’s my blog doing for me?
Flip that around and start thinking, “What can my blog do for others? How can I help the people who read what I have to say?”
When you start thinking like that it’s very easy to start implementing most of this list. In fact, you’ll probably do it without even thinking about it.
DJ
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Tea, I’m a new blogger, and I’m so glad I found your article. I love the Hall Of Fame idea, and when I start getting enough comments, I plan to use it.
The giveaway idea is great; I have some pretty good ebooks to give away, so I’m going to start on that tomorrow. Thanks for the inspiration!
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ok, all excellent tips, but a LOT of work. If you had to pick just three things, what would they be?
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I believe that’s what the article asked of YOU.
Hi Tea.
Thanks for this great post und this fabulous site.
Im a new Blogger and thankful for Tips.
I wish you all the best and success
greetings from germany and have fun
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I ask everyone to contribute if they want to. Then they can feel a part of the community if they want.
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Hi Tea,
Comprehensive list! I recently start doing number 5 and have seen some good results with it. I have done some video’s but the virtual coffee idea is just fab!
Thanks,
Nik
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i think DJ Colter has right.
Tea i like your Post. Its so interesting for me.
Tank you so much
Thank you for the Tips.
its a intersting Discussion here on this Post.
I like your Site Tea.