How to Understand and Manage Blog Comments

How to Understand and Manage Blog Comments

Blog comments can be very gratifying but also stressful. You want comments that are thoughtful and (let’s be honest) that make your business look good. Not in a shallow, flattering manner, but because a great discussion makes people feel positive about your brand. Conversely, a negative discussion makes people feel negatively towards your brand and even changes their opinion of the post that contains negative comments.

commentThe Good and the Bad

In a study of 1,183 people by Ashley A. AndersonDominique BrossardDietram A. ScheufeleMichael A. Xenos, and Peter Ladwig and published by the Journal of Computer-Mediated Communication, it was found that the tone of comments on an article affect the positive or negative reader perception of the article. The New York Times wrote about it here. The study asked participants to read a fictitious technological news article and the comments afterward. Some of the participants saw positive comments, some saw negative comments. The results:

The results were both surprising and disturbing. Uncivil comments not only polarized readers, but they often changed a participant’s interpretation of the news story itself.

In the civil group, those who initially did or did not support the technology — whom we identified with preliminary survey questions — continued to feel the same way after reading the comments. Those exposed to rude comments, however, ended up with a much more polarized understanding of the risks connected with the technology.

Simply including an ad hominem attack in a reader comment was enough to make study participants think the downside of the reported technology was greater than they’d previously thought.

That’s one piece of the comment puzzle.

Comments are content

Another important puzzle piece comes from something I heard Liz Strauss say at SOBCon 2009, and it’s stuck with me ever since: “Comments are content.

Let that one sink in for a moment: comments are content.

I’d spoil this by talking about it too much. It’s simple enough.

Comments are an Investment

Why do people comment on your blog  posts?

  • Because they enjoy it, because they’re stimulated by the discussion and they have something valuable to share.
  • Because they’ve become emotional and they’re reacting.
  • Because they have a question, suggestion or want to point out a mistake.
  • Because they’re on the prowl to “generate traffic” or backlinks and they’re engaging in SEO spam.
  • Because they’re trolls and think you’re easy prey.

There are many reasons, but the above are some of the biggies. Knowing why someone comments can help you decide how to manage their comments or their presence on your blog. Repeat commentators are making an investment in you: they enjoy your blog posts and enjoy engaging with you. They’re not just about getting traffic for themselves. They value their relationship with you. Do you value your relationship with them?

Comments are work

When your blog is new and you’re not getting much traffic or comments, all your work goes into building your network and creating content. Once the ball gets rolling, what you’ll find is that managing comments is a lot of work. It can easily take just as much if not more time than writing blog posts. It doesn’t matter how you decide to manage them (moderated or not, you reply to all of them or not). Because comments are valuable content, and because they represent a valuable investment in you from your readers, you can’t phone this in. If you’ve decided you want to respond to your readers’ comments, I believe you should put as much work into your responses as they did in their comments. I believe in meeting people halfway.

Comments are community

Your frequent commentators are just as much a part of your brand as you are. Visitors to your site are going to be affected by what they read in the comments on your blog posts. An impression will be made. Hopefully, it will be a positive one. Your frequent commentators are your highly visible core community. Treat them with respect. They’re also likely to be your best customers. Not only will you get to know them, they’ll get to know each other, too. Never take them for granted.

Choosing a system

There’s nothing wrong at all with WordPress’s native comment functionality. I like the features and functionality of Disqus and choose to use that service. Some people really like Livefyre or Facebook comments. Triberr comments are another alternative you can use. Various plugins can enhance WordPress comments very nicely, such as providing an easy way for people to have new comments to the post emailed to them and subscribing to your newsletter at the same time. A quick search of the WordPress plugins directory will reveal all kinds of goodies you can use if you want to. The reasons why I like third party comment services is that they combine what would otherwise be a Frankenstein’s monster mish-mash of other plugins and a lot of work into a seamless interface.

Moderation in all things

One important decision you need to make if you’re going to allow comments (not everyone does) is whether or not you’re going to moderate them. Moderating blog comments means no comment is published to your post until you’ve read it and approved it. I don’t moderate comments in this way because I don’t want to hold up the discussion if I’m not free to approve comments. I’d rather come in afterward and clean up the few spam or unintelligible comments that make it through. What can happen if you don’t stay on top of comment moderation is that you’ll get like five people who all think they’re the first to respond to the post. You can choose settings in WordPress that will cause some comments to be held for moderation based on criteria such as containing links or certain words. If you place a link in your comment text on Remarkablogger, your comment will automatically be held for moderation until I can take a look at it. If someone is offensive enough (whether in language or tactics such as spam), you can ban them entirely from your site. This is easily done with Disqus, which I’m using for my commenting system as of this post. It can also be done in “regular” WordPress. Here’s some information straight from WordPress on combating comment spam. There are also plugins for dealing with comments. I will moderate comments that are inane or nonsensical. Empty flattery does not contribute to the discussion at hand. If I can’t even understand what is written, then that person’s English is so bad there can be no real conversation… or they’re using a “spin” program or a translator program to spam worthless content.

Responding to comments

I try to respond to every comment I receive. I want you to know your efforts at commenting are acknowledged. That you’re not just speaking into the void.

If you put a lot of effort into your comment, I will likely put a lot of effort into my reply. If you don’t, I’ll still acknowledge you.

Do this enough, and you’ll begin to feel like you’re repeating yourself. Most people don’t like that feeling. But each person who comments deserves their reply and often that means you’re saying the same things over and over, like “Glad you liked it,” and such. There are only so many ways to say these things, it’s inevitable.

Don’t take your commentators for granted, if you don’t like feeling repetitive, too bad. First world problems, and all that.

Suck it up.

People will always debate whether or not it’s okay to swear on a blog. I swear here all the time and if you swear in the comments, I’m fine with that as long as you’re not being lazy or trying to shock people for its own sake.

But swearing and being nasty or mean to people are two completely different things. As soon as anyone gets nasty and becomes insulting or engaging in personal attacks, they’re gone. Argue about ideas and facts and opinions. Don’t allow personal attacks.

You’ll also run up against arguments and disagreements. These can degenerate into unpleasantness because often people don’t know how to debate without employing logical fallacies or getting overly emotional–and then they start to get personal. Make sure you can recognize and deal with logical fallacies. The same wisdom people apply to email applies to blog comments: don’t respond in kind, and don’t respond when you’re angry.

What works for you?

I’ve shared a lot with you about how I manage comments in order to give you a good overview of comment management. What works for me won’t always work for you, but at least you’ve got a framework for understanding comments and managing them. What’s your approach to managing comments? photo credit: premasagar via photopin cc

  • Alison Golden

    This is *such* an important topic, thank you for discussing it. I am fortunate that my commenters are thoughtful and pleasant (although as Darren Rowse says, they are responding to your content and tone so as the blogger you drive the types of comments you get to a large extent). I tend to think you get the commenters you deserve but occasionally I get snarky ones or ones that have a negative interpretation of my words. I spend a lot of time thinking about how to respond to them because I have seen people kill the community of their blogs by responding angrily or without care. One poor response from the blogger can do immense damage to a blog. And recently I’ve been overwhelmed and not been as responsive to my commenters after the first few, I need to rectify that. Thank you for the reminder!

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      Yes, if you post a rant, you can expect people to rant with you or back at you in the comments.

      You’d be surprised at how much a careless word or dismissal can hurt someone’s feelings. And it’s not because they’re over-sensitive. It’s because they looked up to you and admired you, so when you diss them it hurts more.

    • Alison Golden

      I would also add that when I reply to a comment I always use their favorite word, their name.

      • Evelyn Stice

        That is a great idea, Alison. I always respond to comments, but I’ve not made a special effort to use names.

      • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

        Great point, ALISON. ;)

  • Yonatan Eliyahu

    I’m still trying to figure out how to handle comments when I launch my first real blog. The research done by that organization and published by the Times has made me really stop to consider how I’ll let readers comment on my site. I see comments as being an important part of relationship building, but how to handle it with excellence and grace, I’m having to consider alternative options.

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      Better to think about this now instead of later so that you’re prepared. People don’t read comment policies, but they respond in kind, as Alison points out below in her comment. You set the tone. :)

  • http://twitter.com/andrewrondeau Andrew Rondeau

    Michael

    I agree, comments are content.

    I tend to class ‘spam’ comments as those that just say ‘nice post’ or link back to a sales page. Obvioulsy some get through, but twice a day I go through any new comments, approve (or spam) and reply to each one.

    It takes a little effort but worth it.

    Andrew

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      Yep, I’ve deleted such comments myself. I don’t count flattery as spam. I just delete them. I guess I’m always one to give people the benefit of the doubt.

      It will always be worth it for me to reply to comments for as long as I possibly can. If I ever reach the point where it becomes impossible, well… I look forward to having that problem. :)

  • http://twitter.com/write_clever Sue Neal

    Hi Michael – this is a hot topic for me because I’ve been getting increasing comments on my blog recently and I do find it very time-consuming responding to them but, like you, I think it’s important to acknowledge people who’ve taken the time and trouble to give feedback – I also try to visit their blogs and reciprocate.

    I’ve done some recent posts on this issue, including one about third party commenting systems, which caused a bit of interesting debate. I have to say that quite a few of my readers say they dislike third party systems because they object to having to sign in, register etc. I must admit I used to find Disqus and Livefyre quite off-putting and I’ve only recently got my head around them – for example, I didn’t realise I needed to edit my profile settings in order to receive notification of replies. I think these systems can be confusing for people who aren’t street-wise on the web – it would be helpful if bloggers who use them offered a bit of guidance for newcomers. The first time I came across a blog using Livefyre I was going to leave a comment but gave up when I realised I had to ‘register’ with a service I knew nothing about.

    I use the default WP comments with the premium version of the CommentLuv plugin, which has a “ReplyMe” function – I like to have a way of ensuring my readers receive notification of replies to their own comments, without having to go through hoops and subscribe to the whole comment stream, which can be a pain. I used to use the stand-alone ReplyMe plugin, which is free and seems to work well, but there are some concerns that this hasn’t been updated in a while.

    I’ve been fortunate not to receive any unpleasant comments yet – some polite differences of opinion, but nothing nasty. However, I’m sure that day will come, so thanks for your helpful advice about dealing with that.

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      The issues around third-party commenting systems are now something we all must face, one way or another.

      Sign-up is pretty seamless anymore because you can log in with any popular social media account, which you likely already have. And it’s likely you’re already signed in to that service, making your sign up quick and painless.

      Yes there are people who would stumble at this because they are new to the web. If that was your audience, you’d want to keep things as simple as possible.

      The most telling thing in your own story wasn’t that a service was complicated, but that you knew nothing about it. It was really an issue of trust. I’d love to see this somehow be addressed by the interface.

  • Evelyn Stice

    This hasn’t been a huge issue for me so far; I just started my blog, and it’s really more for the purposes of network building and writing practice than anything else. That is, it’s not *about* anything other than what’s in my head at the time. (I know, I know … but for me it’s working really well.)

    If it became overwhelming to keep up with the comments, I might have to rethink my approach. And if I did go to a “don’t reply to all comments” approach, I’d make it clear that’s what I was doing. But for now, if you comment on my blog, I’ll reply thoughtfully, within a reasonable time frame. (I blog MWF, so it’s pretty easy for me to see and reply to new comments.)

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      Hey, if it’s working, great. You get to define what that means for you. Letting your readers know what you’re doing and why is always the right move.

  • http://www.2ultra.com/ William Cato

    I like to hold comments in moderation, since I get a lot of spam. But I do have the comments set up that if my readers have posted a comment before it automatically publishes. I also get an email for every comment that comes to my blog.

    When it comes to cussing on my blog, which is rarely, because it is a Christian bible study site, my comment systems holds it in moderation. Then I can choose to spam it or edit it. Generally though, I edit the comment and then email the com mentor and let them know that there are other more colorful words in the English language that can be used instead of a cuss word or two and I let them know that I edited the comment and thank them for spending the time to read and interact with my readers on the blog.
    I am not nasty about it, because growing up I had a potty mouth all the time.

    Right now I am using jetpack for comments because it seems faster on the system. I do like disquss and how the comments are handled.

  • http://www.benbellsoftenersystems.com/ benbell

    If you don’t moderate, setup blog comments to be emailed.
    Most blog publishing tools allow you to enter an email address where all blog comments can be sent even if you aren’t having to approve them. Make sure you set up this feature to stay current with the activity on your blog without having to visit the blog several times a day to peruse the comments. If you’re not moderating your blog comments, you need to be more diligent about checking the blog, especially if the comments are not being emailed to you.

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