The Real Reason Nobody is Reading Your Blog

This is a guest post by Tommy Walker. Yeah, I know I said there wouldn’t be any more posts until after the redesign, but of course the redesign takes longer than I wanted. And Tommy is doing this cool thing right NOW, so… enjoy and see you on the new design in a few more days. 

The short answer, you lack soul.

You’re more focused on writing catch phrases that can be tweeted in 140 characters, than you are about putting everything you have into your work, because that’s what some A-List blogger told you was “the way to get more traffic.”

You’ve stripped yourself out of your writing in favor of “scannable” paragraphs, brevity, and wit, and have your readers are numb, and content like this only further induces the coma.

Now please, before you click the back button out of defiance, please allow me to ask you a couple of questions:

What is your mission? Why are you blogging?

What makes you different from the ten million other bloggers that talk about the same thing? What are you giving me to stand behind? What is the mutual benefit of my reading you over the other blogs that talk about the same thing?

If you’re like me, you didn’t have a mission in the beginning; you had a broad understanding of your subject and your audience’s needs.

The problem is, your reader is staring blankly on the other side of the screen, waiting for you to figure your shit out.

When they hit “search”, they want to solve something. They want to do something.

If you’re the first result, they want you to be on a mission too, so you can do it together.

If you don’t know what your mission is, how are you supposed to help them?

DIY, Home Improvement, and weight loss blogs generally speaking do a wonderful job communicating a mutual mission.
Every single post is another idea to consider, another project to tackle, and another goal for you to achieve.

Your mission is the single most important aspect of your blog’s existence. Without it, you fail to let people know why they should support you.

Have you mastered the basics?

“Bloggers” get so caught up in being better “bloggers” they forget that “blogging” is just a platform for communicating thoughts and ideas.

I mean the basics of storytelling, persuasion, writing and the art of communication.

You have been lead to believe running a successful blog is all about “becoming the authority.”

This is a lie.

“Authority” or not, you have to communicate confidently if you’re going to survive…

Real confidence comes from mastery, and sadly most bloggers haven’t mastered communicating yet.

Instead, you emulate someone well known and try to jam original ideas into someone else’s format.

There’s nothing wrong with a little “borrowing”, but when done to an extreme, you’ll sacrifice the soul of your writing.

Instead of borrowing, why not look at the basic characteristics of a good story?

  • A single theme, clearly defined
  • A well developed plot
  • Style: vivid word pictures, pleasing sounds and rhythm
  • Characterization
  • Faithful to source
  • Dramatic appeal
  • Appropriateness to listeners

(Baker and Greene, Storytelling: Art and Technique, pp. 28)

Next time you write, read your draft and scan for these elements.

Many bloggers stumble on “vivid word pictures, characterization, and dramatic appeal” opting to only report without any emotional resonance.

Question word choice, flesh out characters (especially if the character is your reader) and show you understand their exact situation, and how much lighter their situation will be when they take action on your post.

Do You Go Out Of Your Way To Promote?

Or do you expect people will read it, just because?

I’m guilty, and won’t even try to pretend like I’m not. My friend Derek Halpern has more recently started getting on me about it.

Look, the truth is, if you want people to know, you have to get out there.

Guest posts, interviews, comments, and all of those things that seem like cliche’s… they’ll work for you too, if you do it.

Don’t bet on getting well known overnight, and don’t place all your chips on any single post.

Everything works together, and you have to be consistent.

Are you using the right format?

Let’s be honest, blogging doesn’t have to be just text on the screen.

It took me three years to discover that I’m a much stronger communicator through over-produced video.

Mars Dorian, talks about marketing too, but he is much stronger when he communicates through images.

Do you have a nice voice and can hold a decent conversation? Perhaps podcasting is going to be more your thing. Illustration, photos & Live Q&A are some other new media formats that could work well for you too if you’re not the strongest writer.

Whatever it is, you must find the best format for you. The most important factor here is that you’re using a format that allows you to tell a good story with the least amount of friction.

So now what do you do?

Ask yourself “Why am I blogging?”

Really ask. Don’t just give this lip service.

Immediately dismiss answers like “to make stacks of money” and “to become famous” because those are the wrong reasons.

Dwell on this until you find your passion for your topic; it may take a while. Only accept answers that bring you closer to unearthing your mission. Don’t stop until your mission becomes clear.

Then, determine your strongest medium.

Don’t jump to the written word because it has the lowest barrier to entry. I shied from video because I feared the amount of time it would take in order to produce at a standard I found acceptable. Don’t make that mistake.

Living to your full potential is never without complications. Resistance hates when you tamper with the status quo.

The more you try, the more Resistance is going to throw obstacles at you. You must fight your way through it.

With any obstacle you must go above it, below it, around it, or straight through it. You must never lay down in front of it.

Your mission is your war cry, and the internet is your battle field. Do you belive in what you stand for? Do you believe in who you are, and why you matter to the world?

Will you dig deep into the corners of your soul and face the fears no one else will face just to channel that energy and tell the world how you overcame it?

If not, do I really have to tell you the real reason nobody is reading your blog?

Tommy Walker sabotaged his blog for too long and is now making up for lost time by guest posting on every popular site known to man. He’s preparing Season 2 of his show “Inside The Mind”, and is raising $100,000 in 30 days via an experiment with crowd-funding to make it all a reality.

  • http://www.overcomingbloggersblock.com/ Marcie

    I attended Show Me the Blog conference in St. Louis last month and one of the presenters advised to post a little and promote a lot, which made a lot of sense.

    She said that instead of posting everyday, post once a week and promote that topic often. I’m guilty of this and I plan to change my strategy ASAP.

    And picking your best delivery method helps, too. I personally love writing, but I know I need to throw in some video and I’m fascinated by infographics and screencasts. I’ll be changing this in the near future.

    Thanks for sharing!

    • http://tommy.ismy.name/inside-the-mind Tommy Walker

      The promotion to creation ratio is huge. Most people will spend a huge amount of their time creating, and very little (if any at all) promoting, which leaves the blogger very sad.

      I actually just wrote a post on that exact topic over here http://pushingsocial.com/5-cant-fail-blog-promotion-strategies-thatll-get-you-noticed/

      I wouldn’t say it’s a matter of “create less” though. Maybe if that means not publishing fodder at first, but the idea would be to consistently create at a high level. You want your low bar to be higher than the other guy’s high bar. :-)

  • http://www.comoganardineroxinternet.com/blog Rogelio

    Great post! The “Why 1′m blogging?” question is the most important but sometimes we just forget about ir in our quest to be an “authority” or get content for search engines.

    Storytelling is great but for some audiences it’s not the way to go. In some formats (programming for example), the “report without any emotional resonance” may be the way to go.

    Best regards

    • http://tommy.ismy.name/inside-the-mind Tommy Walker

      I’m curious to know what you mean by “programming” ?

  • http://writeclever.com/ Sue Neal

    Hi there – a powerful post – challenging, but also reassuring for someone like me, who’s at the ‘developing the mission’ stage. I know mine’s not clear yet, but I’m working on it.

    I appreciate your point that you need to find the medium that’s right for you, which acknowledges that we each have our own strengths. There’s a huge pressure to do videos these days, and I don’t think they’re everyone’s bag. I’m not sure if they’re mine yet – I’m still getting to grips with the technology!

    I love ‘story’ posts and although I agree with Rogelio that they’re not always appropriate, I think you’re right to suggest that it’s always worth trying to incorporate the features of great story-telling in our work.

    Lots of food for thought here – definitely one to bookmark and share.

    Thank you!

    Sue

  • http://www.laestrategiablog.com/eng Jenifer

    Yes sir. Good choice for a guest post.

    I can see by the other comments that is has inspired, and that\’s the name of the game. My story is that I have not published in my blog for several months because of accompanying a dear member of my family in their journey out of this life.

    Life eclipses profession at times, and for a writer, a blogger, that absence means having to start over to rekindle audience.

    This post helped boost my morale, reminding me that I need to get out there and promote, exist, be, opine and share.So here I am, opining and sharing.

    Thanks for the remembrance. And for taking the time to inspire.That’s what we do, no?

    Saludos from Barcelona,

    Jenifer L. Johnson

  • http://fullfiguredblog.com Hugh

    Great post! You’re so right, no one thing together works you have to do them all and be consistent about it. I wasn’t born with the self-promotion gene but if I intend to make a dent in the blogging game I have to step it up.

  • http://staffperformancesecrets.com/ Leon Noone

    G’Day Tommy,
    Mine is a B2B blog. So I have a clear purpose. I just wanted to reiterate what you say about communication.

    The purpose of communication is the transfer of meaning. If your readers can’t understand what you mean in their terms, your communication’s failed.

    Some bloggers don’t seem to like me saying this; writing is about readers not writers. If you must have a blog, learn to write well.

    Hope this helps.

    Regards
    Leon

  • http://magic.org.ro Sacroterapie

    Amazing tips, and very useful for me. Thank you very much!

  • http://www.damienelsing.com/ April

    Hi Tommy! You’ve got a lot of good points there. There are so many bloggers out there, but what sets them apart is the way they are able to communicate to the readers. It’s a challenge for bloggers to be able to connect to the readers and get their message thru.

  • http://www.dearblogger.org Greg

    Tommy this is pretty sweet man. I like how you stress how people want to do things. But it’s tricky weaving a story through a post full of advice. And ideas how to do it well?

    • http://tommy.ismy.name/inside-the-mind Tommy Walker

      It’s a matter of being open and honest about your experiences both good and bad, and find the lessons in your every day experiences.

      I tried doing it in this article.
      http://www.problogger.net/archives/2012/11/13/how-to-blog-in-the-moment-or-what-acting-school-taught-me-about-being-a-better-blogger/

      The best thing I could say, to start anyways, is to read more fiction. Look at how the writer tells the story, and use that in your own work. Write characters & give them characteristics.

      (from the article I just linked)

      He watched to make sure neither actor would sabotage The Moment. If we did, he would say “Bullshit!” throw his glasses onto the table, run a hand through his salt and pepper hair, then say, “Okay, look…

      “Open. Vulnerable. Penetrable…

      “There is never nothing going on. There is only this moment. This moment. This moment.” he’d say hitting his heart and tugging at an invisible thread.

      “And it changes, one second to the next. It is not your responsibility to manipulate it, make love to it, or hold on to it, only to recognize it and let it work through you, then move on to the next.

      “Get out of your head! Again.”

      That’s the best I can do right now :-)

  • http://www.destinationdiary.org/ Emma

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  • http://jugglingwithjulia.com Julie

    Hey Tommy, thanks so much for putting out there the real questions bloggers need to ask themselves. I was still figuring my $hit out for the first few months, and finally (I think) found my purpose and voice and it just flows so much more easily now. I am a food/nutrition blogger so really the content is already there. Cook. Taste. Share. But your posts reminds me that I can do more than just write! Thanks for the no-bull$hit advice!

  • http://basarinedir.com ba?ar?

    admin, some people read my blog, but they don\’t comment, why?

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      Most readers don’t comment, ever. Others will if you give them a reason. There are many articles online about how to get more comments. Good luck!

  • http://www.stefblog.com/ Stefan

    This article must be read and considered even if you are very known blogger or your blog is 2 days old. Thank you!

  • http://www.footprintsworldwide.com/ Footprintsworldwide

    All these days I used to worry why nobody is reading my blog. The reasons and tips explained by you are very convincing, thanks for that. Keep blogging :)

  • http://brecon-cottages.co.uk/ Breconcottages

    The Self questioning – What is your mission? Why are you blogging? will definitely yield good results, especially you are in confusion state of mind. Before starting any task, it is better to know the real goals. Thanks!

  • http://mobilemonopoly2reviewer.com/ Kent Chen

    This is awesome as well as enlightening! Thumbs up!

  • http://twitter.com/IamCre8tiveSoul Erin Madore

    I love that the main messages seem to be :: Have soul, be authentic, and quality is important. I agree a lot of blogs seem to try to “fit” into a mold, rather than being mindful of their own mission/purpose.
    Before I hit “publish” I like to ask :: Am I honoring my intentions?

    • http://remarkablogger.com Michael Martine

      Great question, Erin. The one that precedes it: do you know what your intentions are? Surprisingly, many don’t. And so that’s also part of the problem.

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