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The Hustling Secrets No One Talks About

Jade Craven Guest Post

This is a guest post from Jade Craven, who has been growing her reach and influence through guest posting, managing to get on several big-name blogs. I asked her if she would like to write a guest post about guest posting on a blog about blogging (how’s that for “meta”?) She surprised me with what she wrote…

I was honoured. when Michael asked me to guest post. I’ve been friends with him for a while and was grateful to be able to contribute to the Remarkablogger community. That was until I saw the proposed topic.

He wanted me to write about how I’d built my blog over the last year. He wanted me to share the results of my guest posting and social media efforts. He wanted me to show that anyone could achieve what I have done and how they too could become successful.

Frankly – I think holding me up as some kind of success story is bullshit. I screwed up last year and was so lucky that my friends in the blogosphere accepted me back. I haven’t measured my stats accurately. When I did, I was averaging between 20-50 hits a day. I have 18 RSS subscribers. My income? It came via the occasional affiliate sale. I was able to make about $3000 from strategic alliances but this wasn’t a regular income.

The thing was – I’m still pretty much a blogging nobody. I launched my blog last year, encountered some severe problems and spent most of the latter half of 2009 trying to deal with them.

I’ve had to change my focus in the past year. I’ve learned valuable lessons because of it.

Do you want massive success? You have to learn to hustle.

Hustling doesn’t come easy. It means you have to see yourself on the same level as those above you. You have to work twice as hard to provide value.

Its all about leverage. It doesn’t matter what you have. Leverage whatever you can – ethically – and you can shave years off your networking time. I’m friends with some pretty big names. I’ve also been able to help my friends make a lot of money. This post deals with the hustling secrets that no-one talks about.

Find ways to barter for products.

When I started out, I was broke. I would scrape together what money I had to buy information products and would use the information from that to get one step ahead. However I couldn’t afford everything. Here are some of the things I did:

  • Emailed people asking for a small discount. I told them that I was Australian and the product was difficult to afford due to the fall in the value of the Aussie dollar. This sometimes worked. People would realize that I was serious and that they’d make extra money by cutting out the affiliate.
  • Build up a portfolio of guest posts promoting others. You then have something to link to when asking for a review copy.
  • Brand yourself as someone worth knowing. Eventually, hustling for products becomes easier. I get review copies of most entry level products now, which allows me to focus on buying the next tier of information products.

This felt uncomfortable but I tried to make sure I brought value to the offer. I also respected those that turned me down.

When you guest post, focus on someone else.

If you look at most of my guest posts, they are about other people. They are:

  • A review
  • A case study
  • A compilation post
  • An analytical post that heavily links to others.

Here’s the thing. When you constantly focus on others, people start to respect you more. They know that you are in the game to provide as much value as possible. Eventually, they’ll start rewarding you for that help.

One of my most profitable relationships is with Dave Navarro. Last year, I did a guest post reviewing ‘How to launch.’ That review happened by accident. One morning, Darren asked what we were doing via twitter. I said I was reading that and he contacted me asking for a review. A couple of days later, Dave was surprised to find that review on Problogger.

Darren is a mate. I didn’t understand how much a Problogger review was worth until that day. Dave and I have kept in touch since and he has helped me so much. He has given me advice on launching my next product. I’ve gotten free access to his products, which has saved me a lot. When Dave asks to do something I’ll do it immediately. I’ll retweet, promote, comment and help in anyway again. I know he is a top bloke. Same with Darren.

Go to meetups:

This may be hard for some people. It is for me. I live an hour away from Melbourne but it can take 2-3 hours to get the places via public transport – I usually don’t get home until the wee hours of the morning.

I also have anxiety and social phobia. I’m receiving treatment but its still a major issue meeting people. A lot of the people I’ve talked about in my Twitip posts are people that I’ve met in real life. I was able to hear about their projects and as a result, was able to provide a really indepth article to a larger audience.

Leverage other peoples audiences to create buzz.

I got into a discussion with Iggy Pintado about requesting retweets vs letting it happen organically. I said that I preferred to leverage other peoples audiences via guest posting rather than post on my own blog and, as DM Scott calls it, ‘beg for attention’. Iggy replied saying that he didn’t have my fan base.

Here’s the thing – people don’t care as much as you think.

I don’t have a fan base. I normally don’t draw much attention to my posts. Most of the buzz occurs while I am sleeping. My tip? Write something worth sharing. Offer it to a high traffic blog. Focus on talking about others instead of yourself. That way you get three groups of people talking about you:

  • Fans of the blog you are guest posting at
  • People interested in your work
  • Fans of the person/people you are talking about.

This can be a lot of people and also causes a lot of positive sentiment.

Realize that your idols are people.

You gotta realize that most of these people are just like you. They are under a lot of pressure. Sometimes they are struggling to keep it together. They’ve just been doing it longer and have a better support network.

If you see them as an equal, they will reciprocate. They will encourage you to lift your game and will provide you with what support they can. Michael has been one of those awesome people who helped me last year.

It’s all about providing value

People think there is a magic formula to success and there is. You have to work hard at providing as much value as possible. It will take time and effort but its worth it.

Jade Craven is a freelance blogger from Geelong, Australia. You can find her at jadecraven.com where she blogs about authentic networking via social media. If you ask nicely, she may give you a guest post. You can also find her on twitter. She’ll try not to mention imaginary bears.

P.S. - Right. It’s Michael again. Now I’m really going to embarrass Jade by saying that despite her assertion that she is no kind of example of blogging success, she damn well IS a great example of blogging success, and even if she won’t say it due to modesty, I will.

The rose in the picture is my way of giving her a rose and thanking her for writing this guest post. :) We all have issues, and Jade has truly bloomed where she’s planted. She has my respect for that.

One thing she did not do is write the headline for this post—I did, and of course the reason why I wrote what I did is because they are Jade’s exact words and they are the essence of what this post is about. You would do well to listen to her. More than that, you should get her ebook on guest posting. That’s not an affiliate link, by the way. I bought her book myself and looked it over and you’d better grab it before she wises up and raises the price (it’s that good).

Thanks, Jade.

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45 Responses to The Hustling Secrets No One Talks About
  1. Melinda_B
    January 19, 2010 | 7:12 am

    Jade is awesome. I've met her in person and she's lovely. Very real and approachable. Heaven help the world when she gets over her phobias and they stop holding her back!

    This is a great post. I'm going to direct my clients to it when they start whining about how hard they have it and how no one will give them a hand up.

    • jadecraven
      January 19, 2010 | 8:16 am

      :-) Glad you like it, Mel. It started off with a different focus and then I was like, this is crap. I'm just gonna get real. Turns out it clicked with many of my good friends.

      Seriously, I've often said Imagine what I could accomplish if I didn't have anxiety. I suspect I'd be broke. I've rediscovered my book addiction.

  2. iggy pintado
    January 19, 2010 | 7:16 am

    Michael

    Thanks for letting Jade's light and wisdom shine on us all. She is a great blogger and have publicly predicted that she is the NBT (Next Big Thing) in Social Media and Blogging. Such a talent that needs to be nurtured so thanks for doing so.

    Jade – you have the most remarkable insights. Thanks for the mention and I look forward to more gems from you in the coming months.

    Cheers, Iggy

    • jadecraven
      January 19, 2010 | 9:27 pm

      :-) Iggy, I'll be guest blogging all over the place so you'll definitely get more insights. Disagree about being the next big thing – I'll settle for earning enough from blogging to be able to take a few months off to bushwalk though :-)

  3. menwithpens
    January 19, 2010 | 7:38 am

    Good post, Jade. I hear a voice in this post saying, “But I'm no one special.” It's a little surreal because I sometimes hear myself saying those very words – and here they are repeated in what you wrote. Like you say, we're all just people at the end of the day, whether we're new or known.

    • jadecraven
      January 19, 2010 | 8:21 am

      I would argue quite strongly that I'm no one special. I haven't talked much publicly about the stuff that's gone on in my personal life over the past 6 months and I've found that has really grounded me. I've started to get more praise and attention and it doesn't sit right with me. :-) Its fascinating that you get it too.

      I would like to note that I have an anxiety disorder and while I'm not longer depressed, I do have a negative perception of my post.

      • Ali Hale
        January 19, 2010 | 8:37 am

        I think a lot of us have a hard time with this. I was *totally* blown away by being on your Problogger list! I'm trying to learn to look at myself with other people's eyes, and to believe them when they compliment me. Fact is, it's pretty hard to get any perspective on yourself…

        (Jade, I think you're special, and lovely, and generous, and big-hearted, and strong. I doubt you'll believe me, but it's the absolute truth!)

        This was a great post. I'm particularly struck by how you kept going when things felt awkward or tough — you didn't let the comfort zone hold you back.

        Oh, and for others considering Jade's ebook on guest posting, I wholeheartedly endorse Michael's recommendation. I've been a fairly prolific guest poster over the past couple of years, and I found a lot of advice in there that I didn't know. Go grab it!

        • jadecraven
          January 19, 2010 | 9:25 pm

          Oooh! About that Problogger list. All I gotta say is, I was right. Two people on that list have already brought out the Awesome Sauce. Sarah Prout got a book deal and Skellie is releasing a book. I knew about neither when I wrote it but now I'm confident that most people will be accomplishing awesome things.

          re: comfort zone even writing this post was out of my comfort zone. I used to push myself because I knew it was the only way to get out of poverty but now I do it because I know my mentors are right.

          (I wont believe you re: the compliments but they made me feel nice, so thanks!)

          Wait until you see the e-course. Thats all I'm gonna say :P

          I'll just pop this in though, I never knew that you could make money from guest posts. I was going to offer paid posting but this guest post accidentally earned me $80. From something I wasn't going to promote because it felt icky to do so. This is why I love guest posting – not the money, but from what you learn.

          • Ali Hale
            January 20, 2010 | 5:29 am

            Definitely! When I launched the Staff Blogging Course, I did guest posts all over the place to promote it — had one on ProBlogger, and I did an interview with Daily Blog Tips (I offered them a guest post), and I still link to it in my bio from guest posts on relevant topics. It's a nice low-pressure way of selling while offering something useful at the same time!

          • jadecraven
            January 20, 2010 | 6:49 am

            Silly :P You're the person that introduced me to the idea. Robb Sutton did it too. His was different – he leveraged a membership site he was part of (Blog Mastermind) to promote his product in a guest post on Yaro Staraks site. However yours was compelling because it had a discount.

            I bought both :-)

  4. Jen
    January 19, 2010 | 8:40 am

    Really interesting and useful post Jade and I appreciate your straight forward advice. I love the focus on focussing on others. I have started venturing out from my blog doing guest posts and that is my main plan for this year, but appreciate you sharing your tips – quite a few I hadn't thought about before.

    • jadecraven
      January 19, 2010 | 9:32 pm

      Glad you liked it Jen. Let me know if there's anything I can elaborate on. Guest posting is a real big learning curve and I'm thankful I had good friends to help.

  5. Jordan Cooper
    January 19, 2010 | 9:42 am

    Jade, I would love for you to write a whole piece on the idea you wrote about “Leveraging other peoples audiences to create buzz”. I think this would be *remarkably* (hehe) helpful to other bloggers because many shift the focus in the opposite direction.

    It seems counter-intuitive, but I believe you gain more traction by having your guest posts be the “cream” of your content as opposed to it on your own blog. You're essentially “auditioning” in front of a new audience, so why not try to impress them as much as possible?

    • jadecraven
      January 19, 2010 | 9:31 pm

      Jordan – thats something I intend to cover as I get asked so many questions. However, it sorta comes naturally to me so I'll need more guidance on the type of info you want. (note: this is actually a strategy I've adopted lately. People come up to me now asking for guest posts, not the other way around, and I ask them specifically what they want me to discuss. Seems to work)

      Hmm – the only issue with your auditioning analogy is that there is no point doing it when your home base is kinda sucky. Mine is. I get a lot of interested based on guest posts but before this, very little gain in terms of $$, increased stats and such. I've always approached it from 'what can i learn' because I see that as free training :P And seriously? Now most of my guest posts are favor posts to those that stuck by me.

      Lemme know if you ever want one though. Theres a bit of a backlog atm (mumbles about @rockyourday being on my back about creating this course :P )

      • Jordan Cooper
        January 20, 2010 | 9:36 am

        Jade, you're absolutely right. If your own blog isn't really ready for that type of exposure, guest posting may not be as effective as you'd like it to be for that purpose. But that's the key thing to determine – what's your actual purpose?

        Everyone's motive may be completely different when guest posting. Maybe you're not looking to drive traffic to your blog at all… in that case, it could be a great tool to position yourself to be solicited for *other* people's projects. Making a name for yourself can be accomplished in many different ways, not just through your own blog.

        • jadecraven
          January 20, 2010 | 6:48 pm

          Oooh you just helped me with the post I'm working on. By working on, I mean just thought of the hook. Ta.

          Initially, my purpose was just to position myself as someone worth working with. And that was cool. It worked. It then moved onto helping people out, as a way to say thanks. Thats one of my main motivations. Now, its about what I can learn. I get to hijack someone elses blog for a day, experiment with my writing style and get more feedback. I love it. I've gotten so much feedback from this one post and that will influence my approach from now on.

          :-) Thanks for making me think.

  6. Sean McVey
    January 19, 2010 | 10:46 am

    Hey there are some fantastic ideas in here. Thank you so much for your advice, it all makes so much sense.

    I have a question about guest blogging. This seems to be far and away the best method for attracting new subscribers to your blog. However, I haven’t tried this because I’m not sure I am ready to promote my blog hardcore. I have been putting off promoting it and hussling bc I plan on redesigning my blog and reworking the theme a little bit. Do you recommend waiting until I have all my ducks in a row before hussling, or just gettin’ out there and working right now? Thanks!

  7. edgandia
    January 19, 2010 | 9:51 am

    Jade – This is an excellent post! You know, it's a great reminder that the rules of building great relationships aren't really that hard! But for some reason, people stumble when it comes to social media. It's as if we forget how to act like real people. The advice you offer here is how we should all behave — whether in person, over the phone or via social media. It's all about people talking to people. Adding value first. Helping out without expecting that person to return the favor. And most of all, being sincere and authentic.

    • jadecraven
      January 19, 2010 | 9:19 pm

      :-) In real life, I have anxiety. I can struggle when it comes to connecting with people. I learned to compensate by being really good at it with social media. You're totally right though, its all about acting like a person. That was something that was difficult to learn but you only get better by putting yourself out there and learning from the feedback.

  8. John Paul Aguiar
    January 19, 2010 | 12:20 pm

    No One special my ass..lol

    This is what I like to read, a str8 to the point, no BS post where she just “says it”

    Very Nice Jade!

  9. Bra Queen
    January 20, 2010 | 4:50 am

    JADE CRAVEN! I love the way I read I post and half the time I don't even realise you wrote it because you don't even promote yourself. You my darling are such a success because we all make mistakes and those who say they haven't are full of shit, quite frankly:) You are a world of inspiration and knowledge, I can't wait to see what this year is going to bring you.

    • jadecraven
      January 20, 2010 | 5:22 am

      2010 has brought an iphone. What else do I need. (a house. Somehow I'm gonna move into a proper house)

      Honestly? I'm still at the stage of not promoting myself. I prefer to promote others. Its a process and I'm getting better at it. As soon as my free ebook is out, I'll talk about myself more. And feel all kinds of weird but whatevs. I'll feel weird with my iphone :-)

  10. Alex Blackwell
    January 20, 2010 | 7:28 am

    Guest posting is a strategy that is often ignored because its been hard for me to justify my time working on another project, but you have opened my eyes here. My biggest takeaway is guest posts will add to my credibility.

    • jadecraven
      January 20, 2010 | 6:31 pm

      Seriously, most people have no idea how much strategic guest posts can add to your credibility. It gives people the illusion that you are a lot more successful than you are. I've really noticed this over the past few weeks and new connections say the same thing. I'm planning to do a post about it later :-) I literally just thought of the title – 'The Illusion of Guest Posting.' Ha! Thanks!

  11. steveborgman
    January 20, 2010 | 4:59 pm

    Jade, this is very encouraging stuff! I love how you let your uniqueness shine through in everything your do. You are the very definition of courage: facing what you fear, and plowing through it! :)

    • jadecraven
      January 20, 2010 | 6:29 pm

      :P Anxiety medication helps with the fear. However most people are too afraid to do a lot of what I've done. If I wasn't in a rough situation, I probably wouldn't have done half the stuff I have.

      Now I pitch first and worry later. It works. :-)

  12. John
    January 21, 2010 | 12:36 am

    This gives me hope that there are others out there doing the same things I am trying to do. Although I am in a different niche, I am spending a great deal of time building a foundation for a business, not just a way to make some money. I find the online business world extremely challenging and just as much work (in a different way) than any off-line business.

    • remarkablogger
      January 21, 2010 | 12:41 am

      John, that's a great point: it IS a lot of work, and it's a very different
      kind of work. Although human beings are still the same as they ever were.
      :-)

  13. jadecraven
    January 21, 2010 | 12:57 am

    John, I'd say I've spent two years in the trenches trying to build a foundation for what I'm doing. I could have gotten things done a lot quicker if I didn't have a lot of personal stuff to do with :-) But its always a relief to know that others are struggling too – and that something came out of it.

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  15. RiverwoodWriter
    January 23, 2010 | 10:03 am

    I am blown away by so many things about this post that showcases the very best of what social media communities can and should be: friendships, relationships, authenticity, and passion surrounding shared interests or concerns. Jade, there is no way to know how many lives you have touched by sharing your highs as well as your lows. And Michael, your spirit of encouragement and generosity of spirit is one for us all to emulate.

    In my book, true courage is not the foolhardy soldier who loves adventure and who runs wholeheartedly and fearlessly into any battle with no thought to his safety (though I'm grateful for ALL soldiers who fight to keep me free). Rather, true courage is the soldier who is terrified but who enters the fray anyway because he is fighting for something he believes in. You are courageous, Jade, and that will help sustain you when it gets tough.

    I would be proud to meet you both in person and hope that I will some day.

    • remarkablogger
      January 23, 2010 | 4:15 pm

      There is no courage without fear. Thanks for your comment!

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  19. wesleycraiggreen
    February 8, 2010 | 4:56 pm

    “It’s all about providing value”

    I think this says it all, really. It may just be me but it seems a lot of the more popular bloggers are shifting towards shilling other popular bloggers information products which, in turn, is leaving a sour taste in my mouth.

    I now find myself gravitating towards those blogs which actually add value by providing useful information- much like this one.

    Kudos on the excellent- and very open- post!

    Wesley Craig Green

    • remarkablogger
      February 8, 2010 | 6:43 pm

      I'm perfectly happy to present relevant, helpful offers from my friends to
      you, and “relevant, helpful” are more important than any other
      consideration, otherwise it becomes a turn-off. And there needs to be a good
      balance. Helping you is my main criteria. As soon as money becomes the main
      thing, it all goes downhill from there. Value, as Jade said.

  20. wesleycraiggreen
    February 8, 2010 | 8:56 pm

    “It’s all about providing value”

    I think this says it all, really. It may just be me but it seems a lot of the more popular bloggers are shifting towards shilling other popular bloggers information products which, in turn, is leaving a sour taste in my mouth.

    I now find myself gravitating towards those blogs which actually add value by providing useful information- much like this one.

    Kudos on the excellent- and very open- post!

    Wesley Craig Green

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    February 8, 2010 | 10:43 pm

    I'm perfectly happy to present relevant, helpful offers from my friends to
    you, and “relevant, helpful” are more important than any other
    consideration, otherwise it becomes a turn-off. And there needs to be a good
    balance. Helping you is my main criteria. As soon as money becomes the main
    thing, it all goes downhill from there. Value, as Jade said.

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  25. air jordan
    June 21, 2010 | 12:51 am

    Jade is awesome. I've met her in person and she's lovely. Very real and approachable. Heaven help the world when she gets over her phobias and they stop holding her back!

    This is a great post. I'm going to direct my clients to it when they start whining about how hard they have it and how no one will give them a hand up

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