Comments on: How to Quit Your Job, Divorce Your Wife, and be a Successful Blogger at the Same Time http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/ Blog Coaching & Consulting Services Mon, 15 Mar 2010 18:19:12 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Blogging Fears and How to Overcome Them http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-102359 Blogging Fears and How to Overcome Them Fri, 05 Mar 2010 08:56:48 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-102359 [...] I quit the last “real” job I will ever have last October, 2009. I was already making more money with blog consulting and info product marketing than I was making at the job, so I knew it was time. I am never working for anyone else, ever again, period. But I’ll tell you a secret: there are times when I am afraid that I will fail and perhaps lose everything. [...] [...] I quit the last “real” job I will ever have last October, 2009. I was already making more money with blog consulting and info product marketing than I was making at the job, so I knew it was time. I am never working for anyone else, ever again, period. But I’ll tell you a secret: there are times when I am afraid that I will fail and perhaps lose everything. [...]

]]> By: remarkablogger http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-101954 remarkablogger Sun, 21 Feb 2010 00:28:16 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-101954 Everybody's situation is different, I guess. Good luck, man. Everybody's situation is different, I guess. Good luck, man.

]]> By: greg hammil http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-101953 greg hammil Sat, 20 Feb 2010 23:44:15 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-101953 Not sure how you do it married almost 30 yrs cant function normally with out my wife and kids she says it is change of life on the verge of quitting a job that pays me 180,000 a yr Do not talk to many people am completely confused no affairs or infidelity involved just changed, close to losing it Helluva place to start I guess Not sure how you do it married almost 30 yrs cant function normally with out my wife and kids she says it is change of life on the verge of quitting a job that pays me 180,000 a yr Do not talk to many people am completely confused no affairs or infidelity involved just changed, close to losing it Helluva place to start I guess

]]> By: remarkablogger http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-101607 remarkablogger Thu, 04 Feb 2010 21:03:26 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-101607 Thanks for sharing your story. Internet therapy works pretty good,<br>sometimes. :-) Best of luck to you. Thanks for sharing your story. Internet therapy works pretty good,
sometimes. :-) Best of luck to you.

]]> By: timfl http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-101593 timfl Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:09:37 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-101593 I myself have always had dreams of being successful, the truth is success is defined in so many ways which differ on an individual level. My wife and I married out of love, the love still exists but we clash in more ways than not. While I pursued my career she stayed at home, I traveled, she stayed at home, you get the picture. Recently my situation changed and we are now living together and I come home every day to see her. We are finding out that we are VERY different people and our hopes and dreams for the future may be a bit out of reach.<br><br>I want to continue pursuing my career and I want to be happy doing so. She wants things from me that I simply cannot provide, although it is cliche we are like oil and water. I cannot change enough for her and I know she cannot change enough for me. I just wish I could get her to see that we would be better off parting ways. Since I do love her and I know she is a wonderful person I have agreed to try and work through things but it always ends the same way. <br><br>I do envy the fact that you and your former wife realized that you both would be happier pursing a life outside of you marriage. If only you could convince my wife that we would be better off pursuing our own version of what makes us happy. Ah well. I normally dont post comments but your story is very intriguing and it prompted me to spill what I was thinking...Internet therapy I guess. Best of luck and thanks! I myself have always had dreams of being successful, the truth is success is defined in so many ways which differ on an individual level. My wife and I married out of love, the love still exists but we clash in more ways than not. While I pursued my career she stayed at home, I traveled, she stayed at home, you get the picture. Recently my situation changed and we are now living together and I come home every day to see her. We are finding out that we are VERY different people and our hopes and dreams for the future may be a bit out of reach.

I want to continue pursuing my career and I want to be happy doing so. She wants things from me that I simply cannot provide, although it is cliche we are like oil and water. I cannot change enough for her and I know she cannot change enough for me. I just wish I could get her to see that we would be better off parting ways. Since I do love her and I know she is a wonderful person I have agreed to try and work through things but it always ends the same way.

I do envy the fact that you and your former wife realized that you both would be happier pursing a life outside of you marriage. If only you could convince my wife that we would be better off pursuing our own version of what makes us happy. Ah well. I normally dont post comments but your story is very intriguing and it prompted me to spill what I was thinking…Internet therapy I guess. Best of luck and thanks!

]]> By: Mike Bordon http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-100942 Mike Bordon Sun, 13 Dec 2009 16:31:33 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-100942 yeah, it is almost on a personal tone for sure...but anyways the way he has described the tactics(is it the right word!!) is worth reading... yeah, it is almost on a personal tone for sure…but anyways the way he has described the tactics(is it the right word!!) is worth reading…

]]> By: This Just In: Entrepreneurship Makes You Impotent | Everyone Read It! http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-100016 This Just In: Entrepreneurship Makes You Impotent | Everyone Read It! Sun, 30 Aug 2009 01:18:23 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-100016 [...] about Brian’s emergency brain surgery. Or Havi’s best friend committing suicide. Or Michael getting divorced. You can read about me watching all the bits of sparkle wash down the drain. And know that [...] [...] about Brian’s emergency brain surgery. Or Havi’s best friend committing suicide. Or Michael getting divorced. You can read about me watching all the bits of sparkle wash down the drain. And know that [...]

]]> By: petrol rc cars http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-99905 petrol rc cars Tue, 18 Aug 2009 10:19:03 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-99905 Hi Michael, Sorry to hear about your marriage....However, I guess you always have to see a positive out of a negative:-) Plus you have found your passion which is blogging...plus you are making a good living from it!!! I wish yopu the best of luck with it, and I am sure you will be a great success. Cheers Hi Michael,

Sorry to hear about your marriage….However, I guess you always have to see a positive out of a negative:-)

Plus you have found your passion which is blogging…plus you are making a good living from it!!!

I wish yopu the best of luck with it, and I am sure you will be a great success.

Cheers

]]> By: love http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-99897 love Mon, 17 Aug 2009 14:31:22 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-99897 I absolutely agreed w/ you! We really need to do something new. It’s not enough to just go w/ our routine procedures. We can’t stand up to many people or things if what we’re doing is exactly the same as others… We also need to find ourselves. We need to put heart in everything we do. If we do that, we will be happy w/ whatever outcome and best of all, our inner desire and happiness will reflects to our work. I think the common mistake we’re doing is: we are doing what we thought were the right things, which caused us to not live a better life. We are not allowing ourselves to be what we are and discover the true us. http://www.CostaRicaHQ.com I absolutely agreed w/ you! We really need to do something new. It’s not enough to just go w/ our routine procedures. We can’t stand up to many people or things if what we’re doing is exactly the same as others… We also need to find ourselves. We need to put heart in everything we do. If we do that, we will be happy w/ whatever outcome and best of all, our inner desire and happiness will reflects to our work. I think the common mistake we’re doing is: we are doing what we thought were the right things, which caused us to not live a better life. We are not allowing ourselves to be what we are and discover the true us.

http://www.CostaRicaHQ.com

]]> By: Michael Martine http://remarkablogger.com/2009/07/08/how-to-quit-your-job-divorce-your-wife-and-be-a-successful-blogger-at-the-same-time/comment-page-1/#comment-99828 Michael Martine Wed, 12 Aug 2009 03:24:47 +0000 http://remarkablogger.com/?p=3093#comment-99828 Cedric, exactly. Following your bliss doesn't mean you'll be blissed-out. It can be pretty damn scary. Cedric, exactly. Following your bliss doesn’t mean you’ll be blissed-out. It can be pretty damn scary.

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